How to build and Gain Confidence
You wish you could feel calm, cool, and confident in front of others. But, you might not have that much strength to face them and talk confidently because there is fear inside you that if I do any mistakes everyone will make fun of me or tease me. You have to avoid this thinking first. It's easy and you just have to follow some points in your life. There are simple ways to build confidence in you.1. Dress sharp: Although clothes don't make the person i.e. you can't judge a person by his dress, but they certainly affect the way they feel about themselves. No one is more conscious of your physical appearance than you are. When you don't look good it changes the way you carry yourself and the way you interact with other people around you.
2. Get prepared: Prepare yourself for doing anything where you doubt about not doing it well. If you prepare yourself for something you will gain confidence in yourself. Good luck.
3. Kill negative thoughts and have positive thoughts: You must never think that you are a loser or you can't do it. Do not act like a Coward. You must understand your capabilities and try to take advantage of them rather than taking them to the negative side. Be positive always.
4. Know your strengths and weaknesses: Identify your strength and weakness. After that, you just have to correct your weaknesses and improve your strength simultaneously.
5. Relax: When you feel anxious and stressed, it directly affects your health as well as it will have a very bad impact on your self-confidence.
Try to take some time out from your hectic schedule and relax by doing yoga, meditation, or anything that you enjoy doing.
It is best if you follow the art of living.
Confidence vs Arrogance
There is a fine line between confidence and arrogance. Confidence is inspiring and arrogance is disenchanted. Confidence gets hired and arrogance is shown the door. Building confidence takes work and to build arrogance in you is very simple. Arrogant people could care less about others; they think that their time is more important than others. Being late means nothing to arrogant people. They are not time punctual.Confident people are timely and quick to apologize if they do something wrong. Arrogant people's body language is dominating, whereas confident people are open and less intimidating. Arrogance is compensation for insecurities and weaknesses. Confident people admit mistakes and learn something from those experiences whereas arrogant people can't fess up to their own mistakes.
An arrogant person only feels smart when another person feels stupid. A confident person feels competent from the inside out. It is also said that arrogance originates from self-misconception and false perception which is very dangerous. It is also true that a person with low self-esteem always has arrogance and shows the behavior of false confidence. When we see confident people around us, they are always comfortable with their accomplishments in their life. Kick out the arrogance and hug the confidence. Be happy, be confident.