We crave for Success just for gaining appreciation, fame, acceptance, and respect. These are the stimulants which make us think that we are happy when we achieve all of them. We feel we're loved, respected, contented, and happy. But even after this are we fully happy and contented with what we have achieved? Are we feeling successful and satisfied? Maybe yes, only if we see us on the path to success. But, if some other people get more successful than us, that makes us feel uncomfortable, insecure, and jealous.
Why cannot we see other people happy and successful? We start creating negative thoughts about the other person and are getting affected by other person's success, name, fame, appreciation, respect, and happiness. Now, this diminishes our happiness as it depends on external factors.
The most important thing is that if we are right and are on the right path, then it does not matter what other people think of us.
We do not need to prove or justify anyone or give a second thought and continue working in our own style and way. If we convince other people, that only creates more hatred, anger, and defamation that it actually is. We only have two choices either we walk on the right path or either we stop and get affected by what others say.
When we are walking on the right path there might come hurdles, many obstacles from other people like bad energy being channelized by someone else towards us must not make us weaker and affected. Getting weaker and fear does not solve the problems. We can overcome them and face it as not big obstacles but a little challenge.
We must walk on our own journey without taking any external pain created by others. If someone sends us negative energy then we must send them positive energy and understand what they must be going through. We should understand that the other person is insecure and fear our success and positivity and just let it flow without letting it affect us. We have to protect us from the positive inner energy.
If we send someone the same negative energy that they send towards us that makes us join their company. It does not make us different and does not make us right. The only thing that we must know is what we have to do now, what our purpose in life is, and what makes us happy and how can we spread happiness and positivity around us. These should be our motto and our Karma. This is how we can handle and deal with negative and jealous people and work towards success. This will help us become a successful person and a positive human being. The only mantra in our life should be: Be positive no matter what.