How to Forgive And Forget When Someone Hurts You
Forgiveness is the positive tools in life to make it meaningful and worthy of living. It shows your kindness and humanity. First, heal yourself, only then you can heal the world. We are the judge of ourselves who have to take a tough decision from letting anyone's action affect our lives. Don't go deeper into anger as it makes you feel helpless. Cut off the connection to your ego and forgive and forget. Do not ever let your ego control you.If you want to forgive someone there is nothing that person can do to stop you from forgiving him or her and if you don't want to forgive, there is nothing that person can do to make you forgive him or her. You forgive and are free from revenge and guilt. Enjoy every moment of your life. Always try to be free of tensions.
When you forgive someone who had made you cry or hurt you in the past, you won't be down in front of that person's eye but you will be free from it. Life is precious, life is beautiful. Don't get stuck on the negative emotions and just move on in your life with full of love and no hatred in your heart.
Benefits of Forgiveness
It is only human to make mistakes. I read somewhere that even God made mistakes. That is why we humans make mistakes. It's our nature. We human can be complete but not perfect. One can make mistakes. Some feel they were wrong and some don't. One who feels that, of course, asks for forgiveness. In such instances, should we forgive or not to forgive? It depends on whether the person who made the mistakes intentionally or unintentionally tried some actions or words, which hurt the other person's feelings.If the person who makes mistakes comes to us and ask for the forgiveness then we have to forgive them. We have to forgive them for ourselves, for our sake. If we don't forgive them then it's not right. Human has a big heart. Our heart melts very soon so it's like our nature we very soon forgive someone so that we don't hurt ourselves anymore. But for the people who have narrow heart thinks in another way. It's a quite different case for them.
I am sure most of us have noticed that it is easier to ask for forgiveness but when it comes to forgiving someone it is not so easy to let go your ego attached toward that situation which had hurt you in the past. If people always remember that past thing then they feel very hard to forgive other people.
Letting go of your negative emotions like hurt, guilt, anger, or not willing to forgive we are carrying around baggage which brings negative energy which only destroys us and makes us difficult to live.
We have to kick that negative energy of us and always carry the positive vibes of us.
We often don't forgive because we want the other person to suffer. But, maybe the other person might not be feeling any emotion which will not hamper their lives but yours. Thus, forgive others for yourself. If we forgive others then we can feel light and can erase all the hurtful past memories.